LOVE ( Friendship or Love)

By :Andryanus



This the last part from my topic "LOVE". Well, i think for this topic, i am going to tell my experience. From my Experience, sometimes people will misunderstand whether that we are just friends, not in love. without realizing it, they said "cie cie cie". you will never forget about this right? or  mocking at them.

LOVE ( Does she love you?)

By: Andryanus

so... i bring this topic again "LOVE (does she love you)" why it has to be does she love you??" why not  does he love you??? it's simple because i' m a boy. :D.

Get in the topic. for the boys, do you ever feel or think or may be you ask yourselves "does she love me?" because after all you did for her , she doesn't respond your feeling.
so, here are my tricks to know "does she love you"

first, is the way she responds to your messages. example like when you ask her what is she doing and then she reply what she doing and ask you back, that could be the signal that she attracted to you. That could be the first step of her starting to love you.

Second, when she is talking to you. If she smiles or plays with her hair while she's talking to you, she might loves you.

Third, when you are being in the same place with her. If she try to look catchy or act for attention, she might want you to look at her.

but, all of this just theories. these are just some people perpective. we don't know how the other people show their love. you have to experience it by yourselves if you want to know does she love you or not...

References
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Dita Nuraini Tiara

My Family

By : Silfiani

I just remember that I can write and post about everything as long as it is not out of our blog's main topic..  And I feel like I really want to write about what I'm thinking about.. It's my family.. As you know, family is a part of our social life.. So, I'll write about my family.. My family is where I spend almost my whole life with.. So yeahh.. I have so many things to write actually.. Like really many.. But first of all, I want you guys know that I'm really, truly happy that I can be a part of my family.. They are the people who know maybe all the things about me, from the best of me until the worst of me.. But no matter what, they still accept me they way I am.. How great that is!! How can you have some people to accept your mistakes that you did over and over again?? There are no other except your family.. Blood is thicker than water after all.. 

But I think I should write about my family related to the interaction.. So, it means I will tell about the interaction in my family.. Hmmm, when I was still living with my family, I spent so much time talking to my mother and father.. I also spent most of the time with my sisters.. Our interaction is kind of normal, I guess.. We live together, we eat together, we see each other everyday, we talk, sometimes we argue.. But before we know it, we are fine again.. There is this homey feeling when I interact with my family.. It just feels so natural.. So calm.. Even the silence never feels awkward for me.. Just simply sit together and talk about anything will be fine.. I never have that feeling when I interact with my friends.. Not yet, maybe?? But I think only my family can give me this feeling.. I LOVE MY MOM.. I LOVE MY DAD.. And last but not least, I LOVE MY SISTERS.. I REALLY DO ^^

Social Interaction and Health

By : Silfiani

Okay.. As usual, what do you have in mind when you read the title 'Social Interaction and Health'?? Social interaction is where we interact with other people.. We share our thought to them.. We talk.. We socialize.. So, what is the relation between social interaction and health?? KEEP READING AND CHECK IT OUT!!

Social interaction can affect the human health, both physically and mentally.. For example, when you have problem and you can't tell it to anyone, you keep thinking about your problem alone and that can cause you to be sick.. See?? Your sickness can start from the bad social interaction..

With good social interaction, our live will be more meaningful.. With the support of other people, we can live more meaningful.. We can recover from our sickness faster.. We can share our thought freely.. We will be away from stress, depression and such things.. With good social interaction, we can live well, away from any diseases.. We can improve our health and protect it..
So, actually social interaction have such power.. Don't let your bad social interaction make you sick.. So, try as much as you to make a good social interaction.. Interact more.. Share your thought.. If you're still afraid, start to talk your problem to one most-believed person.. It will ease your mind.. ^^


Reference : ~ http://www.traumaregister.co.uk/Articles/Human_Health_Contact.htm

Wooden Skyscraper

By : Silfiani

http://weburbanist.com

What cross your mind when you look at the picture?? A wooden skyscraper?? Hmm, I think you read the title already, don't you??

Well, actually that was a house.. Or supposed to be a house at first.. It is located in Arkhangelsk, Russia.. The owner of the house is Nikolai Sutyagin.. He was a former gangster.. He started to build the house with the intention to make a two-floor house.. But when he went to a trip to Japan and Norway, he saw the wooden houses there and got the idea to keep building.. So, he added the third floor, but he thought that the house looked like a mushroom and ungainly.. After that, he added another floor, but it still looked wasn't right, so he kept building, adding floor.. 

http://weburbanist.com

He admitted that the house today is actually just a happy accident, where he never thought that he can build that house.. After some times, he was put into the jail add he became poor, his possessions were destroyed.. The house was almost all broken down.. But he can still lives in the bottom floor with his wife..

After all, it's not merely a house, but it's a place were we build our social life too..

For me, this is so amazing.. A house is important, but the people who live in it are far more important.. ^^

Reference : ~ http://weburbanist.com/2008/12/09/amazing-bizarre-homes-exotic-houses/

Best Friend Day

By : Silfiani

Yoooohoooo.. I can't believe I just find this..
Yeaahh there is 'Best Friend Day'.. When is it?? It is on June 8th..
Don't you dare to forget your best friends.. It's time to celebrate that you have your best friends.. You have to cherish your relationship.. Your best friend is a very very important person that you have to appreciate.. If you have more than one best friend, then that's even better..

On Best Friend Day, I suggest you to spend a whole day with your best friends.. Do everything.. Every fun things.. hehehe But if don't have one, don't worry!! Let's find one.. hehehe It's really nice to have a best friend, so don't disappoint them.. You can buy your best friend a gift on Best Friend Day.. And, have you lost contact with your old best friend?? Awww that's not good.. Go and give them a call.. Make sure that you tell them how much you miss them.. Let's enjoy Best Friend Day together ^^
You know that you can't separate your friends from your social life right?? They are totally a big part of our social life..


Reference : ~ http://holidayinsights.com/moreholidays/June/bestfriendday.htm

Celebrating Birthday Without Money

By : Silfiani

Your or your friend's birthday is coming and you want to celebrate it?? That's great!! But what?? You get some problems?? What is it?? No Money?? Then don't worry, here are some suggestions that may help you out.. Enjoy!!

If that's your birthday, then go and thanks your mom.. What's wrong?? She's the reason you're celebrating your birthday, right?? Go and tell her how much you love her and still can't thank her enough.. If that's your friend's birthday, you should give them a gift.. A present.. Ohh, you get no money, huh?? Don't worry.. Here, do you ever think of a birthday present that you just simply spend that great day together?? Just ask him/her for a walk.. If you're lucky and your house are near the beach or mountain, take him/her there.. Just simply spending the time together may be a great birthday present too, you know.. That will be a quality time and great experience..

Another way.. Hmm, is she/he enjoys movies, then this is going to be perfect!! Just make a movie theater.. Ahh, a home-made one.. hehehe Turn off the lights, and start the movie.. Awwww how romantic.. Make sure to choose a great movie though, that will be a really great birthday present.. :))

Gather your friends and plan a picnic!! Great isn't it?? Just bring the food that you have in your kitchen.. You have to ask your friends to bring some too.. After you guys gather, mix the food that you have.. It will turn out to be a great picnic.. Surprise the birthday boy/girl.. I'm sure she/he must be so happy..

Send she/he birthday card.. Write them the card sincerely.. And you also can decorate the room by some birthday banners that you draw.. It will be really nice..
See?? You can celebrate birthday without money.. But you need to surprise them sincerely.. Just your birthday wish maybe has some special meaning for the.. Don't forget to wish them a Happy Birthday :D


References :
~ http://www.happybirthdaylondon.co.uk/
~ http://hubpages.com/hub/Ways-to-celebrate-birthdays-without-spending-money

Social Class in America

By : Silfiani

6h6ancientrome.weebly.com

Social class is where the society put the people into classes.. In America, some of them simply believe in three classes including the rich class, middle class and the poor.. But some of them make it more complex into five classes..

~ Upper Class
    This is the elite class.. They are the leaders.. Some of them maybe the heads of companies, universities, corporations, CEO, celebrities, and others.. They come with great wealth and power.. Their annual income is $9,5 million or more..

~ Upper Middle Class
    Their wealth is less than the upper class but they have a higher standard living than the lower middle class.. They usually have high educational status.. They are the lawyers, doctors, architects, professors, engineers, civil service executives, physicians, civilian contractors and dentists..

~ Lower Middle Class
    They are white-collar workers.. They hold low status professional.. They have comfortable incomes but their salary are low accumulated.. They are nurses, school teachers..

~ Working Class
    They usually do the physical work that required low skill.. They may have school diploma.. They usually do not have college degree.. They are farmers, craft workers, restaurant workers, repair shops and many others..

~ Lower Class
   They have low education, low income and low status jobs.. They are the poorest class of the society.. They are usually unskilled.. For example the seasonal farmers, the social services, and store cashiers..

So, there are the social classes in America..



References :
~ http://udel.edu/~cmarks/What%20is%20social%20class.htm
~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_class_in_the_United_States
~ https://www.boundless.com/sociology/understanding-stratification-inequality-and-social-class-in-the-u-s/the-class-structure-in-the-u-s/

Social Development of Kids

By : Silfiani

A three until five years old kid, will show the interest with other kids and they will follow what the other kids do.. For example when your sister sees her friend walks to kitchen and eats there, your sister will simply follow it, she will walk to the kitchen and eat there.. If you have a sister or brother or cousin you can prove this by observing them..

They will start to have friendships.. They can usually name their friends who they play with.. Some kids will give their help, for example when Tamara is crying because Nathan takes his doll, Tania will give her a hug and give her another doll to play with.. They will be so close with their friends..

They will cooperate with other kids.. Play together with other kids.. Over all, they will engage others with their lives.. How amazing they are.. They are just kids and I think the adults should have the social interaction like theirs.. We must can cooperate with others, we must can engage others in our lives.. Simply because we can't live alone, we need others..


References :
~ http://www.scholastic.com/parents/resources/article/social-development-3-5-year-olds
~ http://www.education.com/reference/article/social-development-preschool-children/
~ http://raisingchildren.net.au/articles/social_and_emotional_growth_from_age_3_to_4_pbs.html
~ http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/development-social-interaction-toddlers-7691.html

Social Isolation

By : Silfiani

Illustrated by : Jessica Olien

Social isolation, where someone rarely have the contact with the other people or the other members of the society.. Social isolation is really awful I think.. If you're isolated, then it means you have no one to turn to when you're in need.. For example when you are sick, if you're social isolated, no one knows, no one's going to help you..

Social isolation can start when you're bullied.. You will be so afraid to do more interaction with others where you think that they're just going to bully you.. When you do not talk or interact with others, you must be have so much to think.. You will be so busy with your own thought.. What are you thinking about?? It will be mostly about why you are left alone.. You will be shame and drown more into your loneliness..

Other cause can be health issues or disabilities.. For example, when you can't walk normally like other kids because of your disability.. You may feel you're different from others and others kids are going to leave you alone.. You will choose to play alone and become social isolated..

Social isolation is really dangerous I think.. When you have no one to talk to, to share your thought, to have something to do with, it will be so difficult.. Some kids who can't accept their loneliness anymore may even kill themselves.. So, don't let some of us get social isolated.. If you see your friends are lonely.. Go and talk to them.. ^^


References :
~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_isolation
~ http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2013/08/dangers_of_loneliness_social_isolation_is_deadlier_than_obesity.html

Social Media

By : Silfiani

www.viralheat.com

Heard about that a lot??
Okay, let me share my thought about it..
So, social media is the interaction among people in which they create, share or exchange information and ideas in virtual communities and network..
That's the definition..
I believe that most of us spend most of our internet using time in social networking. Am I right??
Who do not know about Facebook or Twitter or YouTube these days?? There are so many social media..

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By using social media, we can publish, share, discuss, live stream, etc.. We can do many things by the social medias.. The news or information spread faster through social media.. We share most of our thought through the social media.. We discuss more by using the social media.. 

But there are also some negative sides of the social media like exclusiveness, disparity, trustworthiness, concentration, reliability, and some others.. 

The social media also can be used in the classroom, for example Facebook, it can help the students to share their thought in or outside the classroom, especially for the shy-type students who seems like can't speak, they can share their thought through the social media.. And YouTube, students can watch videos, answer questions and discuss the content.. The students also can create their own video and publish it..

References :

~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_media

~ http://socialmediatoday.com/

Puppy Socialisation

By : Silfiani

http://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/

Do you guys know what does it mean?? Whether you do or do not, I insist to tell you about that :P
Actually the word 'socialisation' will usually be used in the dog training books or dogs magazines..
So, socialisation is the learning process that a puppy must through in order to it can communicate affectively in its social group.. They do not just have to understand te human language, but they also have to understand and be fluent in the language of dogs..
Just like human, we are not born with social skills, have to learn how to be a part of society and we have to know how to socialize..

http://affinitydogtraining.co.uk/

There is a socialisation plan that the dog owner can follow step by step called puppy socialisation plan.. Or there are other ways like :'Puppy Discipline', where we can teach our puppies by discouraging them from doing bad like stealing, barking, jumping up, etc and we can praise them when the puppies have good manners and act good..

Or you can have 'Dog Training Classes', there are companies that provide the dog training classes.. It will be very helpful for a new puppy owner.. We can learn many things about the puppy and what we can or can't do to the puppies.. But don't worry, the puppies will learn very fast if you can train them well..



References :
~ http://www.pdsa.org.uk/pet-health-advice/puppies-and-dogs/behaviour
~ http://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/getting-a-dog-or-puppy/general-advice-about-caring-for-your-new-puppy-or-dog/puppy-socialisation/

Mobile Phone in Our Life

By : Silfiani

Nowadays, the people around me all have their own phone or phones, except my youngest sister, she doesn't have her own yet so she plays my other sister's, lol..

Okay,, so let's talk about our hand phone.. Is it important to you?? I bet you will answer yes.. Because you absolutely can't live a day without your precious hand phone..

So, why our hand phone is so important?? It can helps us to stay connected with our family and friends.. That's the very basic use of hand phone, we can send the messages an call by using our hand phone..

But, when you're boring you take out your phone and play some games from it.. When you're doing your assignment and need google, you take out your phone and surf the internet... When you're sad and need some music, you take out your phone and listen to music or radio.. When you're on a trip, you take out your phone and take some pictures.. 

When you're going to eat your food, you take out your phone and snap some pictures of your food.. -Ohh well, the last one is absolutely not me but I'm pretty sure that some of you did that.. And many other examples where we really can't be separated from our phone.. When we forget to bring it with us, it feels like we're not complete.. Just like eating the plain rice.. It's just not satisfying..

But, don't worry.. When you don't have your phone with you, look around. You maybe can find your friends somewhere, go and talk to them.. Ohh no!! Why does it sound like you replace your phones with your friends?? Shouldn't it your phones that have replaced your friends?? Ahh, either way, you have to answer it yourselves..

Both our friends and phones can't be separated from our social life, right??

Make a wise choice and enjoy your social life :D

^^

Public Baths in Japan

By : Silfiani

http://www.japan-guide.com/

In Japan the public baths are called 'sento'.. Why do the Japaneses have sento?? In the past, many of their houses do not have their own bathtub.. So, the neighbors agree to have one and they can all take a bath there. They actually not only take a bath or soak in the tub, but they also use that opportunity to socialize each others.

These days, since most of the Japanese have their own bathtub in their home, the sento is not that many anymore, but they are still popular.. The Japanese now have the new type of sento, they combine the public baths with the sauna, fitness center, and they have many different pools..

Actually, what I'm trying to tell you guys is, the way they socialize.. See?? They can even socialize with the neighbors or other people while taking a bath.. While in our daily life, we may find that we are gathering together and have so many chances to talk or socialize but we are too busy with our phones or tablets or laptops instead.. Why don't we just talk?? That's gonna be more interesting where we can talk freely without the need of mediators..



References :
~ http://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2074.html
~ http://www.japan-guide.com/e/e638.html