HOW TO INCREASE YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE IN SOCIALIZATION

HOW TO INCREASE YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE IN SOCIALIZATION
by : Nurul


Now, my topics is about how to increase your self confidence in socialization. Self confidence is the most important thing in our life. For example,we can't have many friends if we don't have self confidence to socialize. And how we can be successful if we don't have self confidence to improve our selves? so, in my topics right now, i'm going to tell you how to build our confidence to have many friends or socialize with people around us. This topics is from many perspective that i think good for increase self-confidence.The other people may have different perspective with what i'm going to tell you.

The first, you need to be aware about your character or your personality, your strength and your weakness. You don't need to force your self about something that you can't do,start to open minded and don't be so shy to make friends. I mean, not to get much attention, but you just need to believe on your self that you are a good person,people can trust you,and don't judge people because its sucks. Try to taking time to remind yourself of your positive traits and accomplishments,Positive affirmations,Taking on more happy, confident body language (standing up straight, smiling),Dressing up and making yourself look nice.

The second, stop thinking about how to be a perfectionist. Everyone is not perfect. you need to have self-acceptance. Everyone gets things wrong sometimes, and it is not a sign that they are useless. Stop thinking that you can't do something before you try. Don't make your self-confidence depends on your accomplishment, because it will crush you inside-out.

The third, start to talk with people around you. You can find some speculation to discuss with someone, but make sure that you are already know about what you are talking about, in other word, don't talk like you know everything, because people don't like someone who talk too much and make no sense.You can increase your self-confidence by working to improve in any areas where you have weaknesses that bother you, it maybe give a little helps to improve your self.

I hope this is useful for you guys. Thank you.

Resource : http://www.succeedsocially.com/selfesteem